The word “doula” comes from ancient Greek, meaning “a woman who serves.” It is now used to mean a trained and experienced professional who provides physical, emotional and informational support to mothers during pregnancy, birth, and just after; or a professional who provides emotional, educational and practical support in the postpartum period. There are different kinds of doulas, with the most common being “birth” and “postpartum”. (We offer services for both!)
What is the difference between Birth and Postpartum Doulas?
Birth Doula:A birth doula is a person who is experienced and trained in childbirth. They provide whatever continuous physical, emotional and informational support to the mother that is needed, before, during and just after childbirth. Birth doulas usually meet with you in person a few times during early pregnancy, and then continue to keep touch with you throughout. They are there to help you whenever you need with any questions and to help you feel ready. They help you to prepare and carry out your birth plans as much as they can. Doulas understand that birth is an amazing, powerful and spiritual experience that a mother will remember all her life. They know that its so much more than just the physical experience, and that laboring mothers have both physiological and emotional needs during this time. She assists with providing any information you need to make the decisions that you feel are the best for you and your baby. She also helps to facilitate communication between the laboring woman, her partner and her clinical care providers. Once your labor begins and you decide you that are ready for her, she will come and join you. She will remain with you and support you throughout your entire labor and for a few hours after. The doula’s role varies from client to client and depending on the needs at the time. Sometimes this is a very physical task of massaging, hip-squeezes and other comfort techniques, fetching water, or offering suggestions for positions to try and ways to help labor progress. Sometimes its mostly informational support and advocacy, helping you get the details that you need to make the choices that YOU feel are are best for you and your family. …Other times its even simply being present, being a calm familiar face, reassuring you and your partner that everything is normal and good. Often the role of the doula is all of these. Doulas also help enable the partner to support you more fully by giving them breaks for food and rest when needed, so that there aren’t any gaps in your care. She wants to help nurture and protecting the mother’s memories of the birth experience, and that they are positive.
Postpartum Doula:A Postpartum Doula’s job changes from day to day, as the needs of the family change. Postpartum doulas offer education, companionship and nonjudgmental support during the postpartum fourth trimester. She does whatever a mother needs to best enjoy and care for her new baby. A large part of their role is education. They share information about baby care, infant soothing and coping skills for new parents, as well as teach the siblings and partners to “mother the mother.” They assist with breastfeeding education, and trouble-shooting any problems she might be having (both physically and emotionally). Postpartum doulas assist with newborn care, family adjustment, running errands, meal preparation and light household tidying. They make sure the mother is fed, well hydrated, relaxed and comfortable.
Why use a Doula?
“The wisdom and compassion a woman can intuitively experience in childbirth can make her a source of healing and understanding for other women.” ~Stephen Gaskin
Women have complex needs during childbirth and the weeks that follow. In addition to medical care and the love and companionship provided by their partners, women need consistent, continuous reassurance, comfort, encouragement and respect. They need individualized care based on their circumstances and preferences. Trained doulas are educated and experienced in childbirth and the postpartum period. We are prepared to provide physical (non-medical), emotional and informational support to women and their partners during labor and birth, as well as to families in the weeks following childbirth.
Numerous clinical studies have found that a doula’s presence at birth can have a positive impact in many ways:
tends to result in shorter labors with fewer complications
reduces negative feelings about one’s childbirth experience
reduces the need for pitocin (a labor-inducing drug), forceps or vacuum extraction and cesareans
reduces the mother’s request for pain medication and/or epidurals
helps the mother to feel more secure and cared for
helps new parents be more successful in adapting to new family dynamics
there is greater success with breastfeeding
mothers have greater self-confidence
mothers have less postpartum depression and there’s a lower incidence of abuse
Where are you, and are you willing to travel?
I’m located in the Cache Valley/Logan, Utah area and yes, I am willing to travel. I’m currently focusing on the main Cache Valley-ish areas (Richmond to Ogden), but I am willing to travel elsewhere for clients as needed with an additional fee (to cover gas and other expenses). Please contact me and we can talk more about the details if you are outside my area.
Does a doula replace nursing staff?
No. Doulas do not replace nurses or other medical staff. Doulas do not perform clinical or medical tasks such as taking blood pressure or temperature, monitoring fetal heart rate, doing vaginal examinations or providing postpartum clinical care like a nursing staff or medical professionals are trained for. Doulas are there to comfort and support the mother and to enhance communication between the mother and medical professionals.
Does a doula make decisions on my behalf?
No! A doula absolutely does not make decisions for clients or intervene in their clinical care! That is not in our scope of practice, nor would we want that responsibility. Doulas provide informational and emotional support, while respecting a woman’s decisions.
Will a doula make my partner feel unnecessary?
No. A doula is supportive to both the mother AND her partner, and plays a crucial role in helping a partner become involved in the birth to the extent he/she feels comfortable.
I’m a husband/partner – what does a doula do for me?
My role as doula is to support the entire family. This means you can go to the bathroom, grab a bite to eat, or if labor is particularly long, even take a nap without worrying about leaving the mother laboring alone. It means you can fully participate in the birth of your child at whatever level you are most comfortable. If you’d prefer to take pictures and leave things like massage up to me, you can. If you’d prefer to be the one massaging or holding her hand, I can take the pictures, fetch water, and deal with any other tasks that may come up. As your doula, I tend to the details, leaving you free to focus on what’s really important to you.
I plan to use medication; can I still benefit from having a doula?
Yes! My role as a doula is to support you and your partner, whether your labor and birth includes medication or other pain coping practices. Your need for support and encouragement continues even with an epidural.
My baby will be born by cesarean; what are some ways I can still benefit from having a doula?
As your doula, I can help you and your partner navigate the often-complex process surrounding a cesarean birth. I will hold the space for your family, helping to remind everyone involved that birth is a deeply emotional and spiritual process, not a medical event, even when medical care is involved. You may need to get special permission for me stay with you during the birth, but even if that is not possible, I can join you after the birth, while your partner goes to the nursery with the baby, so that you are not left unsupported in the surgery room. Breastfeeding and caring for your baby are sometimes more challenging after a cesarean birth, and as your doula, I will provide support and encouragement while you overcome those challenges.
I am planning to have a homebirth – do I really need a doula too?
Thisdepends on your preferences and on your midwife. Some midwives work with apprentices who often may also fill the role of a doula. Most midwives offer a very high level of emotional support, regardless of whether they work alone or with apprentices. There are other benefits to hiring a doula separately, however. You can interview several doulas to ensure the best relationship. Also, having a doula at your homebirth ensures that the level of emotional support will be maintained even in the event of an emergency, during which the midwife and apprentice could be too busy to offer much emotional support. As your doula, I will also provide an increased level of postpartum support.
Who needs a postpartum doula?
Better yet, who deserves a postpartum doula! Traditionally, a new mother would be surrounded by an entire village of support people who could nurture her in the tender weeks and months following pregnancy and delivery. In our society, we too often send new parents alone to their isolated little boxes, without meaningful support and guidance. Usually those who visit are there to hold the baby, and sometimes don’t think to help out in other ways, or maybe aren’t capable to. This is where a doula comes in! Postpartum doulas can be helpful for families whose relatives live far away, or whose family members don’t share their parenting philosophy. We work for brand-new parents, and those who are adding a sibling to the family. Pretty much anyone who wants to get parenting off to a smooth, centered start can benefit from a postpartum doula.
How is a postpartum doula different from a nanny or baby nurse?
Baby nurses bring medical expertise to childcare, while a doula is a non-medical professional who is trained to support new families. Nannies take over childcare responsibilities from the parents, while your doula will work to empower you as a parent.
Do doulas help mothers cope with postpartum depression?
Doulas are not therapists or medical providers, so they do not treat postpartum depression. However, they can help new families recognize the symptoms of imbalance, and connect them with resources for help. Doulas are also great listeners, so they may lend an empathetic ear to the new mom, or help to take care of other household responsibilities while she is focusing on getting well. There is also great evidence that using a postpartum doula can help reduce the chance of developing postpartum depression.
What’s the best time to hire a postpartum doula?
During your second trimester is a great time to hire a postpartum doula. It allows you some time to get to know your doula and settle into your plans, and it allows her to roughly pencil your baby’s arrival into her schedule. With that said, it’s also totally appropriate to contract with your doula as you get very close to your birth, or even after your baby is born. Those kinds of requests aren’t uncommon at all, and sometimes you may not think you need a postpartum doula until the time comes where you do. Please call or e-mail, we’re always happy to brainstorm and we’re generally able to help.
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